It’s a Guy Thing: The Guy Code 101
Have a look at these easy rules every guy should know to be cool.
BURIED not so deep underneath the bravado and manly-man ego traits of men almost everywhere, a code exists to rule the kingdom in which all good okes do their thing.
Here’s the 411 on the unspoken rules that bind dudes and make sure every braai doesn’t turn into fisticuffs a-la-carte.
Welcome the ‘Beerginner’
First time having a cold brew? Ribbing is not optional, it’s mandatory. Do not fear; once you have popped your pilsener cherry with a lager, you are part of the tribe.
Chicks dig scars
It’s true. They really do like it when a dude doesn’t mind roughing it, and has an awesome story to boot.
But don’t forget to stop short of adding to your scar collection while the girls are observing -battling a lion is much more impressive than stubbing your toe on the coffee table.
Ain’t no friend of mine
Best bud has a scorching hot girlfriend? Slap him on the back and accept this girl is forever off limits. Guy Code prohibits dudes from having anything to do with his friends’ girlfriends, ex-girls included.
Be cool, Braaimaster:
Your house? You are the Tongmaster. You braai how you want, and other guys must accept this. But be cool… no one likes burnt chicken wings.
Sharing is caring:
Ever so often a friend will bring along his cousin or something similar to a braai… don’t be a bad host. Make sure he has a cold one to make him feel at ease.
Laduuuuuuma:
If the TV is currently on a channel displaying any sporting activity, it may only be changed to another game if all present consent. Also, you may never ask who is playing; you should know already. If you have missed a few minutes while attending to the chops, you may ask the score.
